Death is the ultimate experience life has to offer. It makes sense to die
well. I agree with Richard Smith on that. I don't think one can die well
unless one learns to live well.
Hence I would like to raise the issue of the art of living well. So many
people suffer through life in boredom, pain and despair. It is almost as
if we forget that we're ALIVE! "To live at all is miracle enough," says
Mervyn Peake in "The Glassblower". And it's true! I still can't get over
the fact that we all start out as a single cell. And that we are aware,
are at all able to sense, feel, think and act is no small miracle.
Why don't we live with a sense of wonder? Why don't schools have a
Wonder Hour every week when the fantastic nature our existence is explored
in terms of the diverse perspectives of science, art, history, literature,
beliefs and the integrated nature of the experience of being human?
Programs like the Blue Peter already do a great job, perhaps they could
introduce the theme of the wowness of being human, of being alive.
And in Medical Schools, I see so many students trudging through the art of
healing... Why not change that? Instead of getting bogged down by
details why aren't we uplifted by our lifelong effort to live and love?
It would be great if the Freshers Week at Medical Schools showed "Patch
Adams" - an inspiring film based on a true story of the making of a
doctor - to whet our appetite for the adventure ahead.
There are campaigns to educate the public about the importance of a
healthy diet. But the advice slides like water off the back of a duck.
Why is that? I suspect that's because there is inadequate alignment with
the awareness level of the public. Though we live in the same world, our
awarenss of life is incredibly out of par. We all seem to be looking at
bits of the elephant and missing the whole! Now would be a good time to
start to fill in the holes in our wholeness. Life is fantastic. We need
to wake up to it while we still can. We only die once.
Why do people squabble over petty winnings? Why not share the journey?
Why does the human race live to survive the rat race? Why say why and not
say why not? We can break free from the 'survival of the fittest'
paradigm of nature. We do it everytime we save a life, heal a child, kiss
a graze better. Medicine and indeed, human life itself is the opposition
of nature. We arise out of nature to oppose it. Naturally. Nature's red
in tooth and claw, we needn't be. We humans! We gripe about the 'human nature' while missing the humane nature of being human. It's
easier to see what's missing than what's in. Let's take a fresh look
inside. Let's open the eye of wonder. That's how children see the world
and that's why they are so innocent. There are lessons there.
"Are you ready to die?" asked Richard Smith. I am ready to die. Each
dawn, I wake and say, "Wow! I'm still alive!" Each night, I sleep ready
to die, "Wow! I have lived!" I'm dying to live.
Thanks for listening. I would love to hear what you have to say. Go on,
say something. You're alive remember!